Speaking & Media
achieving women were never
taught.
Dr. Ronke Dosunmu speaks on marriage, ambition, emotional connection,
midlife, and the hidden relational cost of high achievement.
“She didn't fail her marriage. She applied the right skills to the wrong system.”
- Dr. Dos brings a physician's pattern recognition to the hidden marriage dynamics high-achieving women often struggle to name.
- Her talks are designed for audiences who are capable, responsible, and deeply successful — but quietly longing for more connection at home.
- She gives language to the private relational cost of competence, over-functioning, midlife, and achievement.
Signature Topic
Talks that name what high-achieving women have been quietly carrying.
Each topic can be adapted for podcasts, panels, keynotes, workshops, women’s leadership events, physician groups, and healthcare organizations.
01
The Competence Trap
A structured curriculum that builds on itself. You get answers, tools, and frameworks from day one — not after a warmup period.
02
Marriage as the Life Skill High-Achieving Women Were Never Taught
A powerful reframe for women who were trained for excellence everywhere except emotional closeness at home.
03
Relationship Physics
Why the diagnosis determines the prescription — and how understanding the four relationship positions changes what actually works next.
04
Needed More Than Known
The Relationship Physics framework helps you see which position your marriage is in, so the application is anchored to the actual pattern — not generic advice.
05
Menovorce
Midlife, marriage, perimenopause, and the quiet drift that can happen when biology, burnout, and accumulated disconnection collide.
06
When Success Skills Stop Working at Home
How ambition, excellence, and high standards can become relational liabilities — and what it takes to build connection differently.
Ideal Audiences
For rooms full of women who are excellent at hard things
Dr. Dos speaks to women who lead, build, practice, parent, serve, and carry significant responsibility — often while quietly wondering whyconnection at homefeels harder than it should.
Women Physicians
For physician groups, wellness programs, medical societies, and women in medicine communities.
Healthcare Leaders
For organizations concerned with burnout, retention, relational wellbeing, and leadership sustainability.
Executive Women
For women’s leadership groups, executive circles, and high-responsibility professional communities.
Entrepreneurs
For founders, business owners, and women building ambitious lives while trying to preserve connection at home.
Medical Families
For podcast hosts and communities exploring the impact of medicine on intimacy, marriage, and family life.
Women's Conferences
For gatherings centered on purpose, midlife, ambition, faith, identity, wellbeing, and relationships.
Dr. Ronke Dosunmu
Founder, School of Wife
A physician, wife, mother,
entrepreneur, and teacher of marriage as a life skill.
Dr. Ronke Dosunmu — Dr. Dos — is the founder of School of Wife, a marriage education platform for high-achieving women who are successful in public and quietly longing for deeper connection at home.
As a board-certified pediatrician (FAAP), entrepreneur, wife of more than 30 years, and mother, she brings a rare blend of clinical pattern recognition, lived experience, cultural insight, and practical teaching to conversations about marriage, ambition, midlife, and emotional closeness..
Her work helps capable women stop treating marriage like something they should simply know how to do — and start seeing it as a learnable, high-stakes life skill.
Media Kit
Everything a host or organizer needs to introduce Dr. Dos well.
Available for podcasts, virtual workshops, panels, keynotes, and select in-person events.
Need headshots, a long-form bio, or event copy? Reach out at Dr***@**********fe.com and we’ll send everything you need.
For Podcast Hosts
Questions that open the strongest
conversations.
These prompts help move the conversation beyond generic marriage advice and into the School of Wife thesis.
- Why do high-achieving women often feel more lonely inside their marriages than women who are less accomplished?
- What is the Competence Trap, and how does it show up at home?
- Why does trying harder to fix a marriage sometimes make things worse?
- What does it mean for a woman to be needed more than known?
- How does midlife change the marriage conversation for high-achieving women?
- What does marriage as a life skill actually look like?
Ready to go deeper?
Bring School of Wife to your audience.
For podcasts, panels, keynotes, workshops, interviews, women’s leadership events, and healthcare organizations.
Please include the event name, date, audience, and format in your message.
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