Free Assessment
Find out which position your marriage is in
right now.
Every marriage is in one of four positions. The position tells you what works and what makes it worse. In Relationship Physics, the diagnosis determines the prescription.
What you’ll get.
Your Relationship Position
Which of the four positions your marriage is in right now named and explained clearly.
Your Best Next Move
What tends to work for your specific position and what may make things worse.
Your Next Step
One clear action you can take immediately, based on the Relationship Physics framework.
WHY TAKE IT
Because “something feels off” is not
enough information.
The assessment moves you from emotional fog to relational clarity without
blame, shame, or vague advice.
blame, shame, or vague advice.
01
Name the pattern
See whether your marriage is in mutual progress, one partner stationary, quiet drift, or active divergence — so the dynamic has a name, not just a feeling.
02
Stop applying the wrong prescription
Live calls with Dr. Dos for teaching, guided application, and practice. Scheduled to accommodate demanding professional schedules. Recorded when life happens.
03
Know the next wise step
Your result gives you a clearer starting point so you can stop guessing and begin moving with intention instead of effort.
The Relationship Physics Framework
Every marriage is in one of these four positions right now.
The assessment tells you which one. The position determines the prescription. Many women have been applying the wrong one.
01
Mutual Progress
Both partners actively investing and moving toward connection. The goal but it requires intention to maintain. Complacency is the enemy here, not conflict.
The healthiest pattern to maintain
02
One Partner Stationary
One person invested. One person still. A critical window is open. Most women don’t recognize this phase while it’s happening and miss the right move.
critical pattern to recognize early
03
Quiet Drift
One partner gradually moving away. No explosion. No single moment. Conventional advice more communication, more effort often makes it worse here.
More common than most women realize
04
Active Divergence
One partner moving toward something else. The highest risk position. You cannot chase someone back into choosing connection. But you can stop reinforcing the pattern that is pulling you apart.
Requires a specific, counterintuitive approach
10
QUESTIONS
Built from long-term relationship research and the School of Wife Relationship Physics framework. Designed to surface patterns, not prove a point.
<5
MINUTES
Built for women whose time is genuinely limited. You get a clear result — not a 40-page PDF you’ll never read.
FREE
ALWAYS
No credit card. No trial. The assessment is free because clarity should not cost anything to access.
HOW IT WORKS
A short assessment designed for clarity,
not overwhelm.
This is the best first step if you are new to School of Wife or unsure which part of
the work applies to you right now.
the work applies to you right now.
01
Answer 10 questions
Respond based on what is most true in your marriage right now — not what you wish were true, or what used to be true.
02
Receive your position
You will see which of the four Relationship Positions most closely reflects your current dynamic — named and explained clearly.
03
Get your next step
Your result points you toward the kind of movement that fits your position — so you can stop guessing and start moving with intention.
FAQ
Questions before you join?
A few quick answers so you can decide whether
School of Wife is the right next step.
No. School of Wife is marriage education and strategy — not therapy, not counseling,and not crisis intervention.
We teach patterns, skills, and frameworks. If you need clinical support, we encourage you to work with a licensed therapist alongside this program.
No. This program is designed for you. The skills you learn will shift how you show up in the marriage — and that changes the dynamic. Many of the most meaningful shifts start with one person.
Most women complete it in under five minutes. There are 10 questions.
You receive your Relationship Position and guidance on what that position may mean — including what tends to work, and what tends to make things worse. You may also receive School of Wife resources to help you understand the next step.
If you are in an abusive, dangerous, or urgent situation, this assessment is not a substitute for professional or emergency support. Please seek immediate help from a qualified professional or local emergency resources.
Yes. The assessment uses the same Relationship Physics framework that the September Cohort program is built on. Your position becomes the foundation for everything you learn in the program — but taking the assessment does not commit you to anything.
Your pattern is already
speaking.
The assessment helps you hear it clearly. In under five minutes, you’ll see what’s happening and what works next.