School of Wife

Where Female Physicians Master Marriage Without Sacrificing Medicine

The only 12-month coaching program designed by a female physician, for female physicians who refuse to choose between career excellence and relationship fulfillment.”

Not a Physician? Know Other High-Achieving Women?

The School of Wife: High-Achieving Women Edition launches Early 2026! If you’re not a physician but are a high-achieving professional woman (or know someone who is), Join the waitlist for our Spring 2026 cohort here →
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The Hidden Crisis Destroying Physician Marriages

90% of college-educated women initiate divorce (that's you)

2-3x MORE LIKELY to experience burnout due to work-home conflict

Physician divorce costs: $50,000-$200,000+ per spouse vs. $15,000-$20,000 for general population

Female physicians are 1.5x MORE LIKELY to divorce than male colleagues

The Cost of Doing Nothing

Every day you delay investing in your marriage, you're risking

Professional Impact:

  • Work-home conflict increases burnout risk by 200-300%
  • Marital stress directly correlates with medical errors
  • Relationship problems are #1 cause of physician suicide ideation
  • Career satisfaction plummets when home life is chaotic

  • Financial Catastrophe

  • $50,000-$200,000+ in divorce costs (1-3 years of student loan payments)
  • Splitting assets you've worked decades to accumulate
  • Potential alimony and child support obligations
  • Career disruption during divorce proceedings

  • Personal Devastation

  • Emotional exhaustion that compounds your professional burnout
  • Loss of your life partner and best friend
  • Modeling relationship failure for your children
  • Destroying the family you worked so hard to build

  • Health Consequences:

  • Chronic relationship stress increases cortisol, inflammation, disease risk
  • Poor marriage quality linked to depression, anxiety, cardiovascular disease
  • Sleep disruption affects clinical decision-making and patient care
  • Emotional depletion impacts ability to connect with patients

  • Your Marriage Deserves the Same Excellence You Bring to Medicine

    You wouldn’t practice medicine without proper training. You wouldn’t perform surgery without mastering the techniques. You wouldn’t treat patients without evidence-based protocols. So why are you trying to navigate marriage without formal education?
    You wouldn’t practice medicine without proper training. You wouldn’t perform surgery without mastering the techniques. You wouldn’t treat patients without evidence-based protocols.

    So why are you trying to navigate marriage without formal education?

    This isn’t therapy. This isn’t wishful thinking. This is marriage mastery with medical precision

    What Makes This Different

    Physician-Specific Curriculum

    Addresses role spillover, control issues, emotional exhaustion, and pressures of a male-dominated field

    Evidence-Based Approach

    Built on peer-reviewed relationship science from leading researchers and clinical studies

    No Partner Required:

    You can transform your marriage even if you're the only one doing the work (for now)

    Physician-Specific Curriculum

    Addresses role spillover, control issues, emotional exhaustion, and pressures of a male-dominated field

    Evidence-Based Approach

    Built on peer-reviewed relationship science from leading researchers and clinical studies

    No Partner Required:

    You can transform your marriage even if you're the only one doing the work (for now)

    Meet Your Program Leader

    Dr. Ronke Dosunmu, MD, FAAP

  • Board-certified pediatrician with 30+ years of medical experience
  • 35 years of successful marriage (she’s walked this path)
  • Creator of The School of Wife methodology
  • Specialist in physician relationship challenges
  • Coaching experience with high-achieving women
  • I’ve built a big life — and I know the cost of trying to do marriage without real training. That’s why I created School of Wife: so you can protect what matters most while excelling in everything that matters.

    A Comprehensive Journey Through Evidence-Based Marriage Education

    Over 12 months, you’ll progress through our carefully designed curriculum that addresses the unique challenges female physicians face in marriage. Each month builds upon the previous, creating lasting transformation through:

    Evidence-Based Learning

  • Grounded in relationship science from top universities and clinical studies
  • Proven strategies adapted for physician lifestyles •
  • Clinical approach to marriage improvement with measurable outcomes

  • Physician-Specific Applications

  • Managing role spillover from medical practice
  • Balancing control tendencies with partnership
  • Navigating emotional exhaustion and its impact on intimacy
  • Handling the unique stressors of medical careers

  • Progressive Skill Building

  • Foundation concepts in early months
  • Advanced relationship dynamics in middle months
  • Mastery and long-term sustainability in final months

  • Physician-Specific Applications

  • Monthly relationship satisfaction assessments
  • Skill-building milestones and checkpoints
  • Practical tools you can implement immediately
  • Clear ROI tracking for your investment

  • Note: “Detailed curriculum modules will be shared during your connection call, as we’re continuously refining the program based on the latest relationship research and participant feedback.

    What’s Included

    What You Get

     Weekly Live Group Coaching (52 sessions)

  • 60-minute sessions scheduled around physician availability
  • All sessions recorded for on-demand access
  • Small group format for personalized attention

  • Comprehensive Online Course

  • Self-paced modules with physician-specific content
  • Downloadable resources and worksheets
  • Mobile-friendly for learning between patients

  • Private Facebook Community

  • Exclusive access to fellow female physicians
  • 24/7 peer support and encouragement
  • Safe space for vulnerable conversations

  • Expert Guest Speakers

  • Relationship specialists
  • Leadership coaches
  • Intimacy experts
  • Physician wellness advocates

  • Practical Tools

  • Conversation guides for difficult topics
  • Assessment tools for relationship health
  • Reflection prompts for personal growth
  • Action plans for immediate implementation

  • EXCLUSIVE BONUSES

  • Bonus 1: "The Physician's Guide to Emotional Intimacy" (Value: $497)
  • Bonus 2: "Managing Medical Marriage Stress" toolkit (Value: $297)
  • Bonus 3: Lifetime access to all course materials (Value: $997)

  • Success Stories

    Testimonials

    Dr. Sarah M., Orthopedic Surgeon

    "Before working with Dr. Ronke, I was bringing my OR control issues home and my marriage was heading toward divorce. The financial cost alone would have been $150,000+, but the emotional cost to my kids was unthinkable. Through her coaching, I learned how to lead with wisdom instead of dominance. My husband actually said, 'I don't know what you're doing differently, but keep doing it.' Dr. Ronke's guidance didn't just save my marriage - it saved my entire family."

    Dr. Jennifer L., Emergency Medicine

    Dr. Ronke taught me that vulnerability isn't weakness—it's connection. I was so burned out from trying to control everything at work AND home. Through her coaching program, for the first time in years, my husband and I are actually talking about our dreams again, not just schedules. My stress levels dropped dramatically, and I'm a better doctor because I'm not carrying relationship anxiety into patient care

    Dr. Jennifer L., Emergency Medicine

    Dr. Ronke taught me that vulnerability isn't weakness—it's connection. I was so burned out from trying to control everything at work AND home. Through her coaching program, for the first time in years, my husband and I are actually talking about our dreams again, not just schedules. My stress levels dropped dramatically, and I'm a better doctor because I'm not carrying relationship anxiety into patient care

    ROI EMPHASIS

    The Real Question: Can You Afford NOT to Do This?

    Consider the math

  • Program investment: $7,997
  • Average physician divorce cost: $50,000-$200,000+ per spouse
  • Burnout-related career impact: Immeasurable
  • Health consequences of chronic relationship stress: Priceless
  • But the real ROI isn’t financial – it’s the life you get to keep building with the person you chose to marry

    Is This Right for You?"

    This program is perfect if you:

  • Hold a medical degree (MD, MBBS, or DO)
  • Are currently married
  • Want to improve your marriage without waiting for your partner to change •
  • Are coachable and ready to grow
  • Can commit at least 75 minutes per week to your marriage

  • This program is NOT for you if:

  • You're looking for therapy (this is coaching for growth)
  • You expect overnight results without doing the work
  • You're not willing to be vulnerable in a group setting
  • You're considering divorce and aren't committed to working on your marriage

  • Frequently Asked Questions

    Every session is recorded and available within 24 hours. You can also submit questions in advance through our private community.

    No, this is coaching focused on education, skill-building, and forward momentum. If you need therapy, we can provide referrals to qualified professionals

    The program is designed for you to create change from your side first. Many participants see their spouse become more engaged as they implement what they learn.

    60 minutes for weekly sessions + 15 minutes of reflection/homework. Everything is designed to fit into a physician's demanding schedule

    Yes, we offer payment plans. Details are discussed during your connection call.

    If this program prevents divorce, you save $50,000-$200,000+ in legal fees alone - that's a 625-2,500% return. But the real value is keeping your family intact, reducing burnout, and building a legacy of love alongside your medical career.

    PRICING

    The Investment

    (Regular price: $8,997 - Save $1,000 with early enrollment)

    Fall 2025 Cohort Investment

    $7,997

    Payment Options

    • Pay in full: $7,497 (save additional $500)
    • 3-month plan: $2,832/month
    • 6-month plan: $1,499/month
    • 12-month plan: $799/month
    100% Satisfaction Guarantee: If you attend the first 4 sessions and complete the assignments but don’t see measurable improvement in your relationship satisfaction, we’ll refund your investment in full.

    URGENT: Limited Spots Available

    The Fall 2025 cohort is intentionally kept small to ensure personalized attention and meaningful community building.

    Every day you wait is another day of:

    • Accumulated relationship stress affecting your health and career
    • Missed opportunities to build the marriage you actually want
    • Increased risk of the devastating costs of divorce
    • Your children witnessing relationship patterns you don’t want to model

    Share This Opportunity

    Know other female physicians who could benefit from this program? Please forward this page to them – they’ll thank you for it.   For high-achieving professional women (non-physicians): Join the waitlist for our Spring 2026 High-Achieving Women cohort

    Secure Your Spot in the Fall 2025 MD Cohort

    SUBMIT APPLICATION

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    LIMITED SPOTS AVAILABLE

    Your medical career required years of dedicated study and training. Your marriage deserves the same level of commitment and expertise. You’ve already invested 11+ years and hundreds of thousands of dollars in your medical education. Don’t let a $7,997 investment stand between you and protecting the most important relationship of your life. The Late Fall 2025 cohort starts soon. Will you be one of the select female physicians who chooses to master marriage with the same excellence you bring to medicine? The question isn’t whether you can afford to join. The question is: Can you afford not to?
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